Be The Best Version Of Yourself || Motivational Story

 

Be The Best Version Of Yourself 

Life is unpredictable. We all face dilemma of choosing one over the other. The first step that you have to take is to become mentally strong. If you are mentally strong means you can manage your emotions, thoughts as well as behaviour. That is must for success in life. 

Whatever the circumstances, Be strong and take responsibility and perform your role well as life isn't always easy.

Don't Expect Ease From Life....

Don't waste your energy on things you can't control. Sometimes it becomes important to control our emotions. No need to worry at all about what people feel about you. You don't need to please everyone all the time.

Don't Dwell On The Past...

Mentally strong people don't dwell on the Past. So live for the present and plan for the future. Always learn from your past mistakes and don't keep repeating those mistakes over and over. Instead, move on and make better decisions in the future. Don't feel jealous of others success. Even their success comes from hard work and you should have that willingness to work hard.

Don't Give Up...

If you try, you may fail but don't give up. Use failure as an opportunity to grow and improve. Just keep trying until you achieve what you desire. Enjoy your own company and aren't depend on others for companionship but instead you can be happy alone. 

Here I want to share with you a real story. There was a girl from small town. She belonged to middle class family. She completed her schooling 🏫 from English medium school. She completed her Masters in English and after that she joined as a teacher in small school of her town. But the problem was the school timing was too long and salary was too less.

So she decided to apply in the renowned school of her town. Luckily she got the call from her school from where she completed her schooling. She immediately grab that opportunity. She was hard-working and punctual. So her work and dedication was appreciated by all in the school. 

Then comes the turning point in her life. She had to quit her job because of her father's health as her mother was government employee so, she took care of her father. Unfortunately,  her father died and after few months she got married. After marriage she settled in another city. That was two thousand kilometers away from her native place. At the same time,  all her dreams were shattered as her martial house was totally opposite from her parents house. They all were illiterate and home environment was also very bad.

They used to abuse and torture her. They were greedy also as whenever she go to her mother's house they demand handsome amount and gifts 🎁 in return.  After few years, she somehow convinced her husband about teaching job. She started applying also in almost all the renowned schools of that city.

But again same story,  whenever she received call regarding demo her husband comes up with excuses of no time to take her for the demo. Also not allowing her to go alone. Time gradually passes and she became mother of two kids.

She faced with the dilemma of doing or not doing job because elder son was three years and younger one was one year old. Again, who would take care of tiny tots, if she moves out to work. 

Husband was jobless. He does not want to do any work. There were financial crisis. At this critical time, her two brothers supported her and family alot by providing financial assistance. 

She wants to take a stand for herself and kids. So after lot of thinking and searching, she decided to start a youtube channel. As since childhood,  she got this talent of teaching which she inherited from her mother. So without wasting a single day, she started a channel in which she started sharing videos related to English language and literature. 

At starting she was not regular but gradually she gain the consistency, work hard and kept going. She never look back and at present she has more than 100k subscribers and many more to join.

She also started taking coaching classes at the comfort of her home.

Now she has everything. Her own house, car and all the comforts of life. Her children are getting best education as well. The reason for sharing this story is that many times life becomes unfair in order to take us on the right track. At that time we have to believe in ourselves. 

Trust in God's plan as whatever happens, happens for a reason. Bad time never last forever. Have patience and courage to overcome bad time. 

To Conclude:

On a parting note, I would like to add, don't give the pen of your life in anybody's hand. Come on, it's your life. So, "Be The Author Of Your Life". Just feel the magic of loving yourself. Because in order to love others you should learn first to love yourself. Always keep in mind;

• Have trust in your prayers, 

• Believe in yourself,

• Focus on you, not others,

• Value yourself first,

• Stop being a people pleaser,

• Dark times never last, And lastly

• Become The Best Version Of Yourself...